Hey last question. I'm trying to get the mount file to work. And your write-up says the .mount file has to be the same name ergo gmedia.mount to mount at /gmedia. How would I go about naming the file if I wanted it mounted at /home/athelmil/gmedia?
That's super ugly unfortunately.
There is an example for that here:
So home-athelmil-gmedia.mount then?
Give it a try and see if it works 
coolio. youre the best dude. it worked
Awesome and I learned something new to!
yupp you just have to run
systemd-escape -p --suffix=mount "/path/to/mount"
and it will spit out path-to-mount.mount
general consensus is you can just translate the / to - but if you have some weird symbols or a super odd naming sceme it may not work. like if the path already has a - like rclone-cahe im not sure how the above command would translate it. i would just stick to one word folder names to avoid conflicts though.
thanks for the help again...again. one day ill know as much as you and @ncw