well, it looks like now is copying, is saying "sending chunk ####", definitely I am going to be using -vv all the time because it tells me that is doing something. is weird why last night it copied one of the files (the lightest) but then cant do the others. Well, this is a 400gb file, so is going to take some time, so far looks good, I will report here if if finished successfully.
thank you very much asdffdsa, that was the quickest response I got in a forum in my entire life lol.